The beginning of my transition from marriage-phobic skeptic into an adult who finally took responsibility for every failed relationship in my life and realized I could create the relationship of his dreams.
What if you could have your wishes and dreams come true every day?
We live most of our lives as unconscious as when we drive in a car talking to a friend. After the drive we can recall every word of the conversation, but not one second of the driving. The trouble is that we spend so much time in the unconscious mind, which is like a giant digital recorder with no intelligent design, and had its patterns shaped by the time we were 7 and before we had a say in them. For many, that can be an endless loop of trauma.
Rather than trying to end it with Freudian rehashes of childhood, you could clear the slate and reboot at any time with therapies including self-hypnosis and Psych-K, a technique in which therapists reach the unconscious mind and its habits by studying a person’s movements and their relation to patterns in the brain.
The mind is powerful and self-destructive and only by changing it can we save our selves and the world.
Remember Albert Einstein’s claim that you can’t fix a broken world by doing the same things that broke it, and gave parents of teens or 20s a positive affirmation. Those kids who are still living at home and who have no interest in a stock portfolio may be the ones to save the world because they aren’t participating in the things that brought us to the brink the sixth extinction of life on the planet.
We don’t have to be a prisoner of our genes any more than we have to be a prisoner of our subconscious, that we can change the things science thinks are locked in and predetermined.
Those seeking love keep a list of what they want in a mate, because if they leave things out, they were trusting nature to fill in the blanks.